Step 1: Confirm the Timing Makes Sense
Raises are easier to secure when the company is doing well financially, when your manager isn't stretched thin by a crisis, and ideally around a natural review cycle or right after a significant accomplishment. Avoid asking during obvious budget freezes, right after layoffs, or immediately following a personal performance issue.
Step 2: Build a Case File
Over the weeks leading up to the conversation, document:
- Specific projects completed and their measurable impact (revenue, cost savings, efficiency gains, customer satisfaction)
- Added responsibilities since your last raise or role change
- Positive feedback from colleagues, clients, or managers
- Market rate data for your role and experience level
Vague claims ("I work really hard") rarely move the needle. Specific, quantified accomplishments do.
Step 3: Decide on a Number
Research the market range for your role and target somewhere reasonable within or slightly above it, backed by your specific case. Going in with a concrete number (rather than "whatever you think is fair") gives your manager something concrete to work with or counter.
Step 4: Schedule a Dedicated Conversation
Don't ambush your manager in a hallway or tack it onto an unrelated meeting. Request a specific time, framed simply: "I'd like to schedule some time to discuss my compensation." This gives them time to prepare, which usually works in your favor.
Step 5: Lead With Value, Not Need
Frame the conversation around the value you've delivered and market rates, not personal financial pressure. "I've taken on X and delivered Y" is a stronger opening than "I really need more money right now" — even if both are true, only one is something your employer is positioned to respond to professionally.
Step 6: Practice Handling Pushback
Common responses and how to handle them:
- "Let me think about it" — Ask for a specific follow-up date rather than leaving it open-ended.
- "Budget is tight right now" — Ask about a partial increase now with a defined timeline to revisit the rest.
- "That's outside our normal range" — Ask what would need to be true to justify going outside the range, given your specific case.
Step 7: Follow Up in Writing
After the conversation, send a brief email summarizing what was discussed and any commitments made ("As discussed, we'll revisit this in Q3"). This creates a paper trail and shows professionalism.